So there’s this new intern in your office that you would love to get to know better? Or perhaps you just can’t take your eyes of this person that seems to take the same route as you to and from work.
We live in a culture and generation that is starkly different to that of our parents and even grandparents. Sex is an important part of any relationship, but also a part of life. (It’s also officially good for your health).
Not everyone is in or wants a relationship – and like all human beings, they have needs too.
Casual flings can be therapeutic. They are great way to step out of the bubble for a moment and play. Finding a person who is genuinely relaxed and experimental about a casual fling is not easy. It takes two very self-aware individuals to be able to navigate intimacy between friends without crushed expectations and misunderstandings. While couples have the luxury of betting on when their next sexual experience will be, single people don’t necessarily have that option.
In this regard the powerful knowledge of QiMen’s strategic execution is your best ally. If you have your eye on a specific someone for some sexy time. Ask them out. At that proposed time of your meet up open up the hour chart. Once the chart is cast, look for the Rest door. In simple practice,for the duration of your date, stand or sit with your back facing the direction that the Rest Door shares. Remain seated in that direction and try not to change – unless of course you feel that you really like your date and perhaps want it to be more than just a casual fling. In that case, have your back to the Life Door. This door dictates a more stable relationship catered to perhaps seeing this person more than once.
Casual relationships and flings can be silly, fun, cathartic and sometimes downright awkward. But if you want to have some sex for sex’s sake, there’s no reason you shouldn’t have it. Sometimes you just want to cut loose ad live a little. Let no one be the judge of you.
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